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14 Ways to Have a Great Valentine’s Day With or Without a Partner

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Here are 14 ways to have an extraordinary Valentine’s Day with or without a partner.  Seven (7) ideas are offered for each situation from the traditional with a twist to the unusual and unique.  Some of the articles mentioned are at my Solotopia website.

With or without a partner?

7 ways to have a great Valentine’s Day with a partner

1. Go on a unique romantic weekend vacation. The more unusual the better. Activities and locations that provide new experiences, adventure, or take you to the next level are best. For a list of ideas, read this article, Romantic Getaways for Every Taste, Style, & Situation.

2. Create greater harmony, fulfillment, and productivity in your relationship using the unique, non-confrontational written communication method featured in this book, The Couple’s Review.

3. Start a fitness and/or personal development program together to improve the quality of your life and enhance your relationship.

For information on healthy eating, supplements, losing weight, building a home gym, power walking, and more check out the articles in the “Healthy Living” category.

A good place to start on personal development is by reading the articles in the “Self Improvement” category.

4. Start building your own income-generating website together!  Building an online business together is a great way to strengthen your relationship.  You can build a business, have fun, and make money together!

If you’re new to e-business or you’ve tried and failed in the past, there’s an outstanding company I’ve used that may work for you!  I give detailed information about it here.  If you’re a seasoned veteran or a beginner who wants to learn, I share my story and recommendations on key aspects of online business here.

If you are familiar with website design and e-business and want to build a blog website like this one, here are the services I use.

5. Plant a symbolic tree. Give your partner a five (5) to 15-gallon tree with a note comparing your love and/or relationship with the growth of the tree. This gift will go on reminding them of you in a bigger… To read more, see romantic idea #4 in this article, Romantic Ideas.

6. Go out to dinner backward. Go to an area that has an ice cream, pastry, and candy store within walking distance of each other. Start the evening by going to a place where you can just sit, relax, and talk for as long as you want. Then when you’re ready… To read more, see romantic idea #6 in this article, Romantic Ideas.

7. Create “romance” by mutually agreeing to answer a special question. This idea comes from my Dating Questions article at Solotopia under the category “Inspire romance.” This is my favorite question in this section. Here’s the question: “Would you describe your perfect romantic evening, if I do the same?”

NOTE: It is recommended that you write this description and then exchange, read, or talk about it during a prearranged time. Be sure to… To read more, see romantic idea #13 in this article, Romantic Ideas.

7 ways to have a great Valentine’s Day without a partner

1. Organize Valentine’s party or potluck dinner with some single friends. Here are some ideas. Create games or conversation starters that focus on the benefits of being single; develop mixing activities that facilitate friendship and/or romantic connections; have attendees talk about their best love story; and/or have attendees bring definitions, poems, or music that best represents love to them. No sad stuff allowed! If you need some ideas for content, check out these articles.

2. Go away for the weekend to a resort or even a nice hotel in your hometown alone or with a single friend. Really pamper and enjoy yourself. Although my article about romantic getaways was written for couples, it has some good ideas for unusual weekend vacations that you could easily adapt to your situation.

Another option is to use your weekend getaway to do some soul-searching and future planning.  An article I wrote entitled, Soulful Vacations, may be helpful to you for this purpose.

3. Go out to a nice restaurant or make a special dinner at home alone or with a single friend. If you are alone, discover within yourself how to truly enjoy the evening. For some thoughts on how to do this, read this article, Being Alone and Content To Be Strong Together.

4. Start building your own singles club. Invite a few single friends over to join in the launch of your new singles club! You might begin by planning your first dance. If you need some help on how to go about creating a singles organization, read this article, How to Build a Successful Singles Club.

5. Start building your own income-generating website!  Starting an online business is the perfect match for many singles.  An Internet business gives you the freedom to live anywhere, work anywhere, and travel anywhere you want!

If you’re new to e-business or you’ve tried and failed in the past, there’s an outstanding company I’ve used that may work for you!  I give detailed information about it here.  If you’re a seasoned veteran or a newbie who wants to learn, I share my experience and recommendations on key aspects of online business here.

If you are familiar with website design and e-business and want to build a blog website like this one, here are the products and services I use.

6. Start a fitness and/or personal development program to improve the quality of your life and relationships.

For information on healthy eating, supplements, losing weight, building a home gym, power walking, and more check out articles in the healthy living category.

A good place to start on personal development is by reading the articles in the “Self Improvement” category.

7. Start the process of finding the love of your life. Get yourself motivated by envisioning yourself with a magnificent partner. Considering how much joy or pain a relationship can bring, giving this project a 100 percent effort is a smart choice. An excellent starting point is to learn as much as you can about the best ways to go about it.  Here are some resources that can help you.

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I hope your Valentine’s Day is a great one. Go out and enjoy it regardless of your relationship status.

Brad Paul

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