Integrity is your most valuable asset. Whether rich or poor, smart or average, famous or unknown it’s integrity that is the true measure of your value. A rich, smart, famous person without integrity gets respect for what they have (by people without integrity) and not for who they are. A poor, average, unknown person with […]
Self Love
Awkwardness, Stumbling, and Mistakes is the Pathway to Your Dreams
I once believed that those who were really good at something like a particular sport, school subject, or public speaking were born that way. It took years to realize I was completely wrong. That assumption was incredibly naive from the start. Certainly people have different aptitudes for things. However, I’m not convinced as to whether […]
10 Things You Deserve
Here are 10 things you deserve. Quality, safe, and healthy food. Safe, clean, and physically and emotionally healthy home. Clean, healthy, and comfortable bed and linen. Safe, reliable, and clean transportation via car, bus, or train. Healthcare insurance and access to a quality hospital or clinic. Doctor and dentist who you trust, like, and can […]
Everything Is Not 100% Your Responsibility
A popular trend in the personal development field is the notion that everything you have in your life right now is 100% your responsibility. In many ways that is true. However, there may be psychological wounds, scars, and sensitivities that you struggle with today that are not 100% your responsibility. In some cases, you have […]
Unconditional Self-Love
There has been a lot of talk about unconditional love over the years. It usually refers, as I recall, to parent-child relationships. I feel its rightful place, which affects all your relationships, is having unconditional self-love. Particular milestones or accomplishments should not be a prerequisite for self-love. There is an underlining message that often comes […]